Learning from the fear and misery of the Tsunami

Elsewhere in the village, Mahesh and her husband Ashoghan and son Amrith survived the tsunami, but they were forever touched by the trauma of the day. A pregnant Mahesh was slammed into walls by the waves, and later she and her husband were confronted with scores of dead bodies while searching for their three-year-old son in a shelter. They found him in a corner, alive but unable or unwilling to speak.

“It was a horrible situation out there,” Ashoghan recalls. “We decided to move to another place, as the atmosphere was affecting both our body and soul, especially my son, who had not spoken a word since we found him. We crossed a backwater river stretch and moved out of the village and walked throughout the night to reach a nearby town.”

Amrith, now 13, is sponsored through ChildFund and attends school. After the tsunami, he was able to spend time in a Child-Centred Space to help recover from the trauma. But the family still suffers hardship. Amrith`s younger sister, Joyse, who was born a couple of months after the tsunami, has cerebral palsy, which has prevented her from forming words or walking.

Near Govindaraj’s home, K. Rathnavel, a leader of this community, is busy preparing for a commemoration event for the victims of the tsunami. In between phone calls to other community members, he says, “I want to build a memorial dedicated to the people who lost their lives in the tsunami.”

“Whenever I see the ocean, I get reminded of how it took away hundreds of our fellow villagers – men, women and children alike,” he says. Most who survived have become so scared of the sea that they have given up fishing, the age-old occupation of this village,” Rathnavel says.

“Most of us live in these houses allotted to us by the government as part of their rehabilitation plan for tsunami-affected people,” he adds. “Our old place has now turned into a ghost village.”

K. Krishna Kumar, from ChildFund India’s local partner in Nagapattinam district says, “Today, a decade later, the important question before us is how prepared we are for another such disaster?”

“The disaster forced the development sector to focus on resilience in their programming efforts. As the largest organisation in this region, we played a coordinating role in the post-tsunami rehabilitation and reconstruction,” he says.

Part of ChildFund’s response to the disaster, carried out through our local partners, was to build Child-Centred Spaces to help children recover from their trauma in safe places. In this district, ChildFund India and our partners also started a program to help people find other sources of income after losing their livelihoods.

“The tsunami should be remembered as a history of setbacks and tears,” Kumar says. “But the motivation to go forward must be harnessed.”

Learn more about ChildFund’s Tsunami emergency response, here. Read personal reflections from local people living in ChildFund-supported communities in India, Indonesia and Sri Lanka, here.